The Kid at the Fence: The Importance of Mentoring

Those who live in the world of private flying called general aviation, understand the term “kid at the fence.” It refers to a person – usually a young person, but not always – who is found peering through the airport fence, longing to join the world on the other side. Many of today’s seasoned, skilled aviators started their aviation lives as kids at the fence.

The transition from kid at the fence to the rank of pilot begins with an outstretched hand from a compassionate aviator. Unfortunately, though, some kids never find their way to the other side. They are overlooked in the pilot’s hurried pace or the necessary focus on personal plans or schedule to keep. But when a pilot’s pace slows just a bit and the kid’s excited glance catches his or her eye, the long-awaited trip to the other side of the fence begins. In the best case, the caring pilot has taken the first step on the journey to creating another full-fledged pilot.

There is a business leadership parallel to the kid at the fence. It’s called mentoring. Meaningful mentoring is more than just developing one’s own team or providing guidance to someone on a one-time basis. As in the scenario of the kid at the fence, mentoring involves two critical stages:

1.       Noticing The Opportunity:

Hayden, the "kid at the fence" *
Photo courtesy of Tom and Jo Hahn

In the case of the kid at the airport fence, a pilot notices the opportunity to encourage and nurture a youngster’s interest in aviation. A partnership begins when the pilot engages the eager boy or girl in conversation. From there, the aviator may offer an invitation to sit inside an airplane. As the relationship continues, there may be a flight or two. Some kid at the fence encounters evolve into long-term friendships as the youngster matures and eventually becomes a pilot as well.

Mentoring in the business world has traditionally involved a more formal matching of mentor and mentee, but the forward path closely parallels the story of the kid at the fence. Business leaders may wish to consider the opportunity to take mentoring to the next level, by being constantly on watch for the equivalent of the kid at the airport fence. Rather than waiting for the mentee to take the first step, or for HR to call with a mentoring request, leaders could take the initiative. In the workplace, many men and women show interest or aptitude in a field outside their current profession. Leaders can practice active mentoring by making the extra effort to notice and engage these individuals, just as a pilot might reach out to the kid at the fence.

2.        Keeping the Commitment:

 Once a partnership is forged between pilot and kid (or mentor and mentee,) the lead individual must be willing to continuously invest in the relationship. “Do what you say you will do” may seem simplistic and almost condescending, but many of these relationships falter because the pilot (or mentor) fails to follow through. It’s easy to become too busy, have other priorities, or simply lose interest in the relationship. However, even the most innocent stall or stop to the mentoring process can send a devaluing message that can quickly dash the mentee’s enthusiasm. Once a hand is outstretched to the kid at the fence or to a potential mentee, the pilot or leader must be willing to encourage the interest for as long as it exists. In many cases, the interest is short-term. Occasionally, the interest will percolate for many years or even a lifetime.

A commitment to encourage the kid at the fence (whether at the airport or in the business world) may sound significant, but the rewards are immeasurable. Long-term friendships and meaningful professional connections are forged. Most importantly, though the pilot or mentor transfers knowledge, wisdom and experience to someone who will very likely one day, do the same. This form of paying forward is key to a healthy future and continuity for the general aviation industry or our chosen professions.

For further reading on this topic, consider The Mentor’s Guide by Lois J. Zachary. This book is an excellent resource for anyone wishing to serve as a mentor on or off the job.  Anyone who works with youngsters can nurture a budding kid at the fence through the Aviation for Kids Activity Guide and Teacher’s Resource, published by the National Business Aircraft Association.

* Many thanks to Tom and Jo Hahn of Port St. Liucie, FL for the great photo that accompanies this article. The photo depicts their grandson, Hayden at the Sikorsky Family Fun Day in West Palm Beach, FL. Hayden, son of Brittany Silcox of Vero Beach, FL wonders how tall he needs to be to fly the fighters on the other side of the fence.